parent · March 28, 2026

My parents care so much that it makes basketball stressful.

Elijah's answer

That is a hard spot because they probably mean well. But love can still feel heavy when every car ride turns into a film session. You start playing for the conversation after the game instead of the game itself. Pick a calm time and tell them one specific thing that helps. Say, "After games, I need ten minutes before we talk basketball." Or, "Ask me what I learned before you tell me what you saw." Do not attack them. Give them a role that actually helps you. Parents are supposed to be support. Not another scoreboard.

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